idk what to do?????!!!!?

[Michelle]

long story...Im in a triangle..ok.. years ago, I was dating this guy I met, he lived here in the states.. originally he is from England, his parents moved back, and we continued dating, just online, finally we both just got sick of the distance and broke up. we both went our separate way, I ended up having a child with another guy. later, I realized I couldn't make it work with him because Im still attracted to my ex. we started talking again, and I want to be with him, Im more than willing to move when I get my money together, but should I stay with the guy I have a child with, or the guy that I care about? As far as custody over the child, I have full custodye gave my son to me. Im just worried that for some reason we wont work out again, like I wont be able to move to see him until I get out of college.

[bbycakes]

Right now, you have a higher priority than your love life. You have brought a child into this world. It is your responsibility to care for and nurture that child. You need to find a way to make it work with the child's father, because your kid deserves to have both a mother and a father. If that means sacrificing your love life, then that's what you need to do. The rewards you get for raising a happy healthy child are much greater than you'd get from chasing your fling half way around the world.

[i3myeyemakeup]

i'd really suggest finishing college, but then I'd go to england to be with your guy!

[caledonia]

I would rather focus on my baby than guys. I suggest that you should finish your studies first because it is also for your child. Then, try to make things work first with the father of your child if it doesn't work then with the one you love, but you should go with the one whom you feel that you are loved.

[karan]

I think you should go guy you love because you will be happy with him and as you have got the child's custody and I don't see any problem going for your love and lead a happier life and don't think for it so much.Do what your heart says and you will happy in the future for sure.