dad called cps on me for no reason?

[dairyday]

Ok I'm a single parent of a just turned 2 year old son. I live with my mom and dad since I divorced my husband. So me and my dad don't get along whatso ever. So here's what happened today.Me and my son was just waking up from our naps and my dad came home from work and he got my son and took him in the computer room with him. So I stayed in the living room. Like 5 mins later I heard my dad yelling at him so I got up to get my son. My son is kinda a wild child plus he's going thru the terrible twos so when we was leaving my son smacked the keyboard and my dad started spanking him. I don't like anyone spanking him I already told my parents I'm the one to displince him so I picked my son in my arms and my dad is still continuing to hit my son on his butt. I started getting pissed off and I was like ok I think he gets the point.So supposely I rolled my eyes at him and he got mad yelling and screaming calling me a b**** right in front of my two year old so I walked away and then he hit me in the back of my head with my son in my arms. My dad has a really bad temper like he needs help with because he comes off crazy. So I went to sit down on the couch. Then I get a phone call from my mom because my dad called my mom at work complaining. She told me that my dad called cps and he went to his parole officer to complained about me lol I'm like what can his parole officer do to me. Anyways he went and said I don't feed my son I sleep all day I play video games all day. 1. My son was 31 pounds so he def gets fed. I don't sleep all day I was up at 7am with him. The only thing that cps will prob talk to me about is my carpet in my room cause its dirty from my son dirty shoes and his food spills that's the only thing that's wrong. I actually think I'm doing a good job especially me being a single mother. I got accepted to college I'm suppose to start in the fall. I have filled out job applications sitting on my table so I'm don't think I'm a unfit parent.Can he get into trouble to calling cps when nothing is really wrong? What is to happen now since he called cps?

[mystikalroze]

You need to report him for hitting your son and you while your son was in your arms. That's unacceptable.

[Michelle]

Get a vacuum and what good are job apps on the table! Take them back to the business's! And do something to get out of this mans house. THere is a reason he is on parole!!

[birdkid025]

I think you need to live somewhere else, you're dad is on parole and sounds like a NUT JOB. Do you really want your son around that?

[rxaler]

Someone needs to slap your dad real hard.

[SoccerKic]

Evolution fails.

[susan]

They may send someone to visit, but as soon as they find out the allegations are unfounded, he could actually be the one in trouble. If he knowingly filed a false report against you, you have legal recourse against him. I would definitely consider moving away from him because his temper could lead to a number of other problems. Best of luck to you.

[momof5]

They have to investigate you now. They will do a home inspection, call the kid's doctor and make sure you have his shots and well-checks up-to-date and that the kid hasn't had suspicious injuries or illnesses, ask you some questions, wait a couple months and then close the case (based on what you told me.) Make sure you tell them that your dad called because he was pissed at you, they take that into consideration. The fact that your dad hit your kid could be a problem, you probably want to leave that part out or they could keep a case open on you for allowing it and/or not calling the cops on him and for continuing to live there with a man who hit your your kid. Move out now. Your dad can only get in trouble for false reporting the second time he reports you and it's determined to be false. Just get out of that house ASAP.

[rxaler]

If your father is on parole, talk with his parole officer and explain what is occurring in the home. Obviously your father has anger issues. Perhaps it might be best for you to postpone college for a while, seek employment, and move to a small place of your own. You can always take correspondence or internet classes. As for CPS, all you can do is explain the situation. You may find that he did you a favor by calling them. They most likely will be more concerned about your father's behavior toward you and your son.

[NicoleM]

Well, he IS your father, so you should probably ignore this particular situation for a while, bad temper, nerves, it could happen, I guess... but just for this one time. you should think about leaving and living alone with your son...but, if he hits him again, definitely call cops... that's, like, really, really unacceptable.